Erection Coaching Updates

Some think my job as the Erection Coach must be so good. Well it has it's up's and downs - literally and figuratively, as you will see from reading a few of these entries below - to do something so unconventional takes such determination and tenacity, I have nearly given up so many times. However improving Erection Quality (EQ) is my passion - I feel it is what I am here to do.

Some of these are career updates, but still affect the coaching I deliver ; where do you draw the line between career moves and erection coaching evolvement - they're one and the same - delivering you a better and even more effective coaching experience.

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2025

2021 - 2025 to be added soon

2021

͢→Validation

A psychiatrist from overseas booked a session with me whilst on a conference. This is the equivalent of an endorsement of my methods that makes me realise I'm on the right track with the pshcological aspect.

Erection Study's proving so useful

Thank you for all of you taking part in the last study who have returned your answers, it has been very informative. If you haven't yet returned your answers to my final questions, please can I ask you to do so, otherwise I'll have to put it down to non compliance.

Erection Student having to be limited.

Due to its popularity I'll be restricting membership to 3 periods per year. 

Psychological requires a certain something

To help me develop more effective coaching strategies to overcome ED that is psychological in nature I am starting a new membership - Erection Student - exactly the same coaching (HARDer Erection Video Guide) discounted joining fee in return for taking part in my Erection Coaching Study.

New website physical and psychological combined - penisMind.com

The name hopefully says it all - your mind is so important.

Psychological means personal

I am realising how individual the psychological aspect of erections and virility are - but how much more effective the personal communication is at dealing with and overcoming - to give strong erections once more..

͢→Validation

Perhaps one of the best bookings I could hope for in respect of reaffirming I am at last making headway - a booking for an In Person coaching session with a GP and one from the UK. Hopefully gives you a reassurance too.

Physical vs Psychological

As long as I can remember the medical establishment has tended to cite the main causation of erection issues to be physical, but my experience is telling me otherwise. Both have a big part to play and if one is slightly lacking then the other must pick up the slack.  Meaning that even it is a physical issue - the psychological can help out in many ways. In older men how much does the mindset affect what manifests as the physical? 

2020

New Web Site

This website was never built with Online Erection Coaching in mind and as that is where my coaching is going at the moment - due to Covid 19 and the international coaching ability - I'll be moving the HARDer Erection Video Guide to a new site - specifically a Membership site - but interestingly one that will focus upon the psychological as much as the physical.

Motivation to do good for thing for your penis

I think I have this one covered with the new video - but most of all with introducing more contact.

The Psychological Aspect of Erections

If you are a HARDer Member - you'll have no doubt viewed the psychological section. However, this is just the start - I am realising that the psychological not only influences the actual erection process - but also the motivation to improve the physical. 

Thank you to all of you in the US

RE: my last message  2 months ago asking for thoughts on lack of UK interest, I have heard from no one in the UK, but I have had 6 men in the US contact me about it.  Varying topics but one suggestion that it  could be down to the larger population - but with percentages of that ratio, there has to be more to it. I  tend to favour other explanations - a possible mindset. This actually coincides with my next project - that I'll be talking about soon.

Hassling vs Encouraging 

I just got the distinct impression from an email reply that I should only ask how the training was going if they indicated they were happy for me to do so.  I was only trying to help! Going forward I'll make it clear that I can be contacted at any point for tips- individualisation or progress chat.

Encouraging Communication

Initially the HARDer Erection Video Guide was designed to work through totally independently. However the individual aspect cannot be underestimated. Plus regular contact ensures compliance.

US 87% - UK 2% 

Euro - 7 Asia -4% I don't even know what to read into that - help me someone. Why are all my countrymen not getting this??? If you read this and you are in the UK - please get in touch and share your thoughts - I'd really appreciate it.

Due to all that is going on..

I no longer have my training room in London. For now but hopefully will return.

Oh ! 

With Covid 19 on the rise I am so glad I took the decision to take my coaching online. 

2019

Online Erection Coaching has Arrived

Here is the semi  Erection Video Guide. Totally free erection coaching for you covering hormones, blood flow, erection muscle strengthening. I have obscured my penis and therefore in a few instances my erection (non sexual) which I realise detracts from the message intensity with a barrier. However in the coming weeks, I'll be launching the HARDer Erection Video Guide where I'll be totally naked for a naturalistic style of coaching. More to be introduced in the coming weeks

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Have you just visited me? And Inspired Me?

If you've just visited me in London for an erection coaching session - there's a chance I filmed an erection coaching video after you had left - pretending I was delivering it to you. Now I've found the key to filming an erection coaching video - I am finding it also helps improve my InPerson sessions - the perfect synergy. So if you do attend one of my training sessions - we may just inspire each other in different ways.

AnErection Coaching Session from London to New York. 

Wow I just filmed my first erection Coaching video. Yes I have done many for YouTube before but this is different - personal, intimate and encouraging a feeling from within - that Male feeling - not sexual.  Filming this directly after a client / student who was from New York proved to be the key - as I imagined I was coaching him - instead of the camera. 

Moving Erection Coaching Online - but keeping it real.

I am making plans and start filming the HARDer Erection Video Guide. I want it to be organic, and be filmed 'real' as though the viewer was attending a real life session at my Central London Training Room. Plus in front of a cameraman - I would struggle to be so personal and intimate. 

Am I in the wrong Country?

With so many of my clients being in the US - used to paying for treatment - my healthcare skewed personal training seems to have found a more receptive audience in the US. I do realise that in part it is due to the numbers involved, yet my marketing is all in the UK and comparatively little in the US. However, it is the conversion rate from enquiry to client / student that is perhaps the true measure. This indicates the US is ready for me.

My questions Answered - The NHS is not always a good thing.

I have been analysing all the help I give men before they book a session with me. On the one hand I am pleased to have found the answer, but also cant help feel disappointed, with the realisation - when it comes to crunch time and actually having to book and pay for session, the Brits tend to falter.I hasten to add, not all but enough to see a trend. Whereas guys from the US actually go through with it. This causes me to draw my own conclusions and my long held beliefs from my time working within the NHS: that because it is free - some are not encouraged to take responsibility for their own health. i have long been of the belief that a group of the population either  'play the patient' or find it easier to let the NHS fix them rather than take lifestyle measures that require will power. to gain a benefit. Yet if they were charged for each visit, procedure, and medication - perhaps a proportion of this group may be tempted to use proven lifestyle measures that are sometimes proven to be more effective than drugs or indeed prevent rather than leave it too late and require a cure. Rant over! 

The Place to Be

For the first time in my private Erection Coaching career - I feel I have got things about right. After a slow 1st month, bookings are good and the number of repeat bookings encourages me. However a big proportion of my clients are international visitors, mainly from the US and here for a limited time. This is great, but still the question lingers why are international men more receptive to my Erection Coaching.

Practice in Central London

A relatively unconventional health & Fitness intervention such as Erection Coaching to help overcome ED is perhaps going to do better in London rather than Bedford. Therefore today I sign up for my new premises - in a great location, just off Piccadilly Circus. On the edge of Soho perhaps says it all about the training I offer - there has to be just a hint of sexualness - the primal male. But not too much.

2018

The wrong kind of TV appearance.

Approached by producer of Tosh.0 regarding flying me out to the US. Whilst it is good to get my message out there - I feel this cheapens it too much and so whilst flattered that I have 'reach', I decide to decline.

2015-2018

More Entries will appear here soon.

2015

Marketing or Receptiveness?

International clients in London on business are now accounting for nearly a third of all my London Visits, which raises the question, is it the web page I put up to inform international visitors of my services that is working so well, or are men from other countries more receptive to the new field of Erection Coaching?

2014

From the US

Visited a client from the US  in his hotel room which gave me inspiration to encourage other international visitors flying in to London for business to also visit the specialist - ErectionCoach.

2013

London & International

Regular visits to clients in London and to hotels for overseas visitors is encouraging me to pursue with my erection coaching message.

London showing the way

My trial of the coaching sessions in London has proven there is a demand for my unique services. It is more the case ofLondon being ready for me and Bedford perhaps not.

2012

Improving erection quality as opposed to Erectile Dysfunction

I am beginning to wonder if men in general do not like to think that they have erectile dysfunction but all men perhaps would like to improve Erection Quality. Perhaps its what you call it.

A Realisation that a 'message' needs to be got across.

Whilst my services are being held in high esteem by some there is still as much health education/promotion that I need to do before I can even effectively market my services to help men that may have erection issues, and needlessly suffering with them.

A rebranding of Male anatomy

The sole job of the Ischiocavernosus muscle is to make the penis more rigid and withstand the forces from penetration. Therefore to help men become more motivated to do their specialist exercise and look after this muscle with a good lifestyle - I now call it the: Erection Muscle.

What Men Really Need to Know

I don't mind who views my videos - as long as my Erection Improvement Naturally message gets out there. However I am bothered about how some of the comments may be viewed by YouTube's moderators who give me a difficult enough time already.  Therefore aiming to bring the message back on point and  let men know; all about their pelvic floor muscles and how they are one great way to start improving erection quality. 

Showing myself naked on YouTube

Whilst I cannot believe the popularity of the videos - I post one and return just an hour later to see a few hundred views already - for the first time since leaving the NHS I feel my service is started to be validated. However, this feeling was short-lived - as today I read through the comments - to start replying, and whilst it is great to be helping many, some of the comments make me realise the views and subscribers are viewing me for reasons other than health - the novelty factor of seeing a penis on YouTube.

Group Naked Training in Central  London

I’ll be holding a weekly 2 hr group session in London, the venue: On the Strand. If you’re interested just contact me. Details: 7pm. Max participants 10. A head to toe Naked training session for all parts of you - that input into the Erection Process. More health - less sexual, if erections occur, no problem - but they are not needed.

Public Nudity Embraced 

My passion for erection coaching wins the day and I embrace nudity. After all I'm doing nothing wrong! I am just trying to improve men's lives.

Reality dawns

I have let my passion for Erection Improvement sweep me away. So glad am I that finally my message is well received I have been happy to appear naked. However - what if my family see these videos. Oh, I am slightly anxious now.

Careful Editing required

Having to walk a tightrope with my YouTube channel - more videos get removed - but the good news is - there at last seems to be a demand for my services. 

2011

Reinvigorating My YouTube Channel

With no one seeming interested in my Head to Toe concept - I'm thinking of trying another angle - leading by example and appearing naked to draw attent to the fact that our penis and EQ can be strengthened with exercise and other lifestyle interventions just like any other body part controlled by blood flow and muscle.

Head to Toe - and all that's in between.

Rather than jump straight to erection coaching - I'll gently let the world know I'm here to improve their Health & Fitness from Head to Toe.

Moving back into the Unconventional

Perhaps the unconventional world is where I belong. I have a plan to gradually let the world know I exist!

2010

Conventionality

GP referral scheme is going well - but I'm not passionate about it. Whilst I am trained in managing various Health Conditions, it is within the context of Erection Quality (EQ), as before EQ can be improved if there are any health conditions - they have to be managed first - as an erection does not just happen in isolation, it is the end result of so many different processes further upstream. Therefore to a certain extent an erection is a barometer of wider health (and fitness).

GP Referral Scheme

Excited to be starting m GP referral scheme, however it is far from ideal. The problem is politics and procedure. Firstly I cannot offer erection training under the scheme and because the NHS is involved I cannot even mention it. Secondly, the fees are so low it costs me more to deliver - as because a clients GP has directed them to me - they expect it to be free.

Reaching the Informed Few

So many do not associate Personal Training with health, I am having to do as much to educate as well as market my services. How do I reach those that don't want to rely on taking a pill, is the question. May spend more on advertising than I earn at this rate.

2009

Shelving the Unconventional?

I am concentrating upon conventional personal training - for Health - all round health, as the problem I have is when I mention the personal training with the Erection Coach - sexual services seem to be at the forefront of people's minds as opposed to health.

Before my time - for ED and erection issues

The UK does not seem quite ready for an Erection Coach - how do I reach/let people know I can help them overcome Erectile Dysfunction or just improve their Erection Quality (EQ).

Reality dawns

Excited to give you some personal training - in the truest sense of the word. I’ve been waiting to go live with this New Personal - Personal Training for ages - but whilst within the NHS I could not. I am hoping there is enough interest in my services. I know there is a massive need - just realising the enormity of what is ahead - how do I let men with Erection issues know I am here. 

Left the NHS - a big step into the unknown world of Erection Coaching.

A shortened excerpt:

Leaving  he NHS and now hoping to use all my practical experience underpinned by physiology knowledge from Uni to prevent rather cure, as the few years in particular have been so frustrating - if I'd have been able to see these patients a few years ago- they're conditions could be totally reversed - all with natural interventions. But you know when things are just too advanced and you have to switch to management mode. This is okay but it dampens all my optimism.