...does this make me gay?

The throbbing guide has been going for a month and it has caused a few guys to be taken by surprise with how their body respond - so  this will hopefully help you understand the complexities of the male erection….what’s behind it and what it means...

Erection Coaching draws upon the raw you - strength and sexuality of your body to get a stronger erection. Coaching as personal as this can raise some feelings but does not make you gay.

I am in contact with many different guys- all enjoying getting the most from their body. Some are older, some are younger all different backgrounds and nationalities. Some are gay but some straight and most of the time I never know as it is just me and you communicating and enjoying improving a private part of our body -it does not need a label just enjoy the wonderful world of erection improvement! 

Some guys get a little confused here about their feelings - viewing videos of another man exercising his penis. 

This is normal we are all interested to know:

  • where we are on the scale
  • about what other men actually do
  • their problems
  • their sexual response

Training to get to the raw you - from a male coach...
If you seem to enjoy this training a lot it can lead to some intense feelings within you but does not make you gay - here's why....
Part 1 - 

Part 2 below - the complexities of arousal - interpreting your erections ....

  • Erection Coaching is all about me coaching you to get the most from a private part of your body.
  • Because of all the training videos here you get to know my body rather well - and if you choose to send me pics or videos of your progress - I too may get to know yours quite well.
  • Then there is also the information pages here, and if you choose to email me, a personal communication - where we get to know each other's thoughts.
  • This can lead to a bond developing but it is like with a friend or work colleague - but very different because it is all about your most intimate areas-  you may equally choose to be totally anonymous.
  • ...whatever level you choose to communicate/interact/train - this can least to a whole variety of emotions and feelings - all totally normal - as we bond due to sharing an experience that is different to normal and accept each other's experiences of erections, erection training and sexual response. This acceptance  actually boosts testosterone levels and confidence. 
  • If you feel very sexual at any point during the coaching that is fine - as that is some of the purpose to get back to the raw you. 
  • This raw you may feel really sexual at different points - and being with another man being sexual does not mean you're in any way gay - just think of it as male bonding. You may well be gay or bi or - somewhere  on the scale - if I we can harness any of the sexuality to get your body fitter and stronger to give you harder erections then that's all good...

..but it certainly does not mean you're in any way gay - it is all about your sexual feelings inside being stimulated in a different way to normal. thats all. so no need to overcomplicate with any labels or anything - you're just making the most of your body - strengthening it and enjoying every single part of it!

A bond developing - but you're not gay!

Exercising along with me can cause you to feel sexual, but this is all about you - not me - and does not have any bearing on your sexuality.  It is freeing and liberating to be doing this stuff with another guy as it is different and exciting. Sometimes all these different feelings can cause questions to be asked - you may happen to be gay - but if you are totally straight - please do not get confused.  If you are feeling certain emotions or feelings this is entirely normal and changes nothing about your sexuality - it is purely male bonding! 

All About  Health

This coaching is all about improving the health of your whole body and mind - with everything focussed upon the fitness goal of: achieving better erections which inevitably brings sexual feelings into the coaching -from a natural healthy perspective. Even then it is from a sexual health perspective and I am just facilitating you with that - I am not involved in it, as I am the coach preparing you for future sexual times, not part of them. Therefore whether you're Straight or Gay as this coaching has a lot to offer you and is about your health and your sexual response to yourself, it is not to do with me I am just connecting you to your penis (if that makes sense) and so whatever happens with you - it is you. I just happen to present and providing you with the training for your body and mind in a sexual way. . This has nothing to do with sexuality- just two guys training their body's and understanding how to get the most from them for future sexual encounters with others .

Erections for many different reasons

It does make you an ambitious human male wanting to make the most of their body and get in touch with their innermost muscles and controls.  In the coaching session we are improving your health, and becoming aroused due to another man does not say anything about your sexuality. We can become aroused for all sorts of reasons. We can also become erect for all sorts of reasons and sometimes not because we are aroused but purely due to feeling relaxed, a reflex response or purely enjoyment. Any erections or arousal does not make you gay - but it does put you in touch with your body so that you can enjoy it to its full extent.

And that really is what this training is all about - I am of no consequence - just there, purely enabling you to get the most from your body, it just happens that another male is helping you. But that is what is needed, as a man understands a man in a different way to a woman - so for this training you have no option but to get very personal with a man so that you can enjoy either a man or a woman or simply yourself more in the future.

Really Enjoying Erection Coaching With a Man Doesn't Mean You're Gay!

The relaxation/smile taken further in this video to gain a semi - showing just one reason why we can become erect.

Straight or Gay

Hopefully that has reassured you that it does not matter what your sexuality is - all men can benefit and will feel totally comfortable as this is individual; training to improve your erection quality by improving your health and fitness of your whole body and mind - albeit in a slightly unusual way!

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